Sunday, June 13, 2010

A Very Belated Post

Some of you are probably wondering if this birthday party mommy forgot to celebrate Sarah's birthday. Well,we did but in a small scale this year as it was just 2 weeks before we flew off to London. Sarah would not allow mommy to forget this important occasion. It was a small family celebration at Triple Three [no pun intended] and we are thankful for the thoughtful staff who gave us a private room and even doubled up as my event manager for the day. 


Sarah and her balloons which she specifically requested are a must-have at her party.
The cake that she couldn't stop nibbling at.
Ah Gong, Ahma, Duayi, Uncle Henry and Cousin Belle Belle.
Grandpa, Grandma, Shu Shu David, Auntie Chiao Chyi, Shu Shu Darrell and Cousin Hannah and Cousin Josiah.
Grand Auntie Fung, Grand Uncle Mark, Natalie and Emily
Dear friends, Josh and Jan and Jojo.
Grand Godpa Chua and Family.
More surprises that evening with the Ikea Kitchen which Auntie CC took hours to fix
Shu Shu Darrell and his gift of roller skates to Sarah.
Duayi and Uncle Henry's Birthday Bicycle to Sarah.

Friday, June 11, 2010

*Our Heart Melt Moment*

This happened a couple of weeks ago when we returned from UK.

Daddy: "So Sarah, would you like to go to London again or stay in Singapore?"
Sarah: "I want to be with Daddy and Mommy." 

For Sarah to be able to communicate with us is a joy. For her to communicate to us with such sweet and honest words are truly a blessing.

As I busy this week with some camp preparation and the daily responsibilities, I continue to return to www.sheepdogger.blogspot.com and it was more tearful reading as I am directed to http://www.theelishafoundation.org/blog/ which tells more stories about parents who are 'bestowed' with special needs children. Many of these kids cannot and never will be able to tell their Daddies or Mommies, "I love you" but the parents plough on in this mostly unreciprocated relationship. This reading always puts my feet on the ground even as I get carried away with lofty ideals for my children. This reading also always directs my gratitude to the Lord for my kids. God glorifying words dispels discontentment, strife and unhappiness but encourages gratitude, brokenness and humility in the Lord. 

A most fitting song as we think of children, abled or disabled:

Jesus loves the children
ALL the children of the world.

Wednesday, June 09, 2010

Let the Children Play!

Will Sarah and Samuel ever be tired of play? Haha...I am afraid not. As children, their propensity to play is tremendous. And I thoroughly enjoy watching them play, laugh and jump with no holds barred. The simplicity and genuine-ness of their hearts and mind give way to the fullness of the joy they experienced. Let the little children play in gay abandon - till the cares of life and the complexities of mankind take over.




Wednesday, June 02, 2010

The Necessary Kids Travel Checklist for UK


I am constantly fine-tuning my travel packing list, particularly when it involves packing for 2 tots. This trip to London, have ranked some things high on the priority list. A pram/ double pram is great especially when you are doing extensive walking in London, through the parks or visiting museums. It was great when we visited museums because Sarah and Samuel were fast asleep during that time, and it meant some good quiet time of studying the exhibits. But did I forget to mention that the Underground in London is probably the most child unfriendly mode of transportation for families in London. Dan and my father in law did a fair amount of weight lifting as they carried the double pram with its full load over the many steps and the execution of perfect timing as we tried to bounce out of the tube in time, with kids, pram and grandparents all in tow to avoid the doors closing in on us. Haha...it was harrowing but truly memorable. 

With the erratic weather of London, cold air, chilly winds and the sudden drizzle, it can truly knock the socks off any Asian who is only too used to tropical weather. Always, always bring along a rain cover for the pram. There were times when we had to brave through the drizzle, and Sarah and Samuel would be howling because of the cold rain. The faster we push to reach to the shelter, the colder they felt as the pram pushed through the cold rain. Poor kids:(

I was glad the day before I left, I rushed to buy woolen thermal underclothes for the kids. It proved real handy. Perhaps, I should have bought 2 sets because I recycled the only one set I had for them for a full 21 days:) And of course, 2 sets of beanies, gloves, scarves and a good windbreaker [with hood] should be able to greet any sudden change in weather. 

My mother-in-law was wise enough to pack a bag of instant oats and marmite which became a rather regular meal for the kids in UK. Potatoes, chips, pies and pasty just doesn't seem to go too well as their dinner. A food thermos flask is especially useful to keep food warm in the cold weather. 

Wellingtons, many pairs of socks and a good handy pair of crocs proved to be all the footwear they need for play, fossil hunting, rock-pooling and horsing around. 

For Samuel, his little pillow was packed all the way from Singapore and it was definitely a life saver during those long road trips and for him to adjust into a new holiday home and a new bed everytime we moved. 

Notwithstanding the long list of things to bring, I would bring an empty luggage the next time to pack in all the wonderfully inexpensive organic food and snacks and toys from ELC UK.

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

The Best Comfort of Being Overseas...

is being able to catch up with Family and Friends. One of the most memorable parts of the trip was being able to meet up with friends and family, albeit physically or virtually. We met up with Rachel and had a sumptuous crepe dinner with her. We met up with the kids' Godpa and Godma, Uncle Jonathan and Auntie Karen at least 4 out of 7 days we were in Central London and we enjoyed every minute of it. We met up with Auntie Ching and her family in her home and that was also very priceless. Family and friends are truly God's comfort to every individual - whether we return home from a friendly or a hostile environment. 

This picture of Sarah and Samuel, obviously enjoying their google chat with Hannah, Auntie CC, Shu Shu David and Shu Shu Darrell sums it all up.